Exciting news here at Simply {Darr}ling! Brad and I are Adopting! We’ve still somewhat in the beginning of the process so it will be some time before we actually have a baby home but we wanted to share all this exciting news with you.
Funny Story – when we were at UW taking this photo somebody asked us if we had lost our child and this was our way of finding them.
Last month Brad and I traveled to Portland for a 2 day seminar at our agency. During that time, we learned more about the agency’s philosophy, heard from a birth mom and adoptive parents and got to know more about the process. We had our intake interview last week and are officially accepted into the agency so now we’re starting the homestudy process.
Most likely we will be able to finish the home study in the next 3 months and then will be in the pool waiting to get picked!
How You Can Help
First of all, pray for patience. We could be bringing a baby home in just a few months or it could easily be over a year. I could put together a nursery and have it ready in less than a week so it will take some restraint to hold off for a while.
Pray for the birth family. We don’t know what sort of situation our birth mom will be in that leads her to adoption but she will be involved in our lives from the moment she picks us on. We are going with an open adoption agency which means that we will be communicating and visiting with the birth family forever and they will become part of our extended family.
Most likely this adoption is going to cost around $35,000 when it is all done (based on the agency fee and other miscellaneous fees not included in there). Based on this number, we will be working on saving up and fundraising. I’m compiled a few ways that you can help us reach this goal.
Share items from my Etsy page through Pinterest, Facebook, Word of Mouth, etc.
If you see my blog posts shared on my Facebook page, give them a like, comment or share! Facebook suppresses my posts and if more people interact with them then more people see them. More views to this blog help gain some extra income to put towards the adoption.
Help cover our costs by using my affiliate links: I’ve created a Shop With Me page which features many of my affiliate banners – such as Amazon. You make your every-day purchases and the brands give me a portion of your purchase (don’t worry, I don’t see anything about who purchases through my links). Simply click on my affiliate link and I get a little kickback no matter what you buy.
If you want to help financially, we have set up a YouCaring fundraiser where all funds will be directed to the adoption account. We are grateful for all donations and support that is given to us.
Ashley @ Li on the Pars Farm says
Yay!! I am so excited for your adoption journey. What a blessing these babies are!! Congrats!!
Jessica H. says
This is amazing! Good for you! I wish you the best of luck during your adoption process. :)
Romany manwaring says
Fantastic! I will include you in my prayers for the foreseeable and look forward to following your journey! Congratulations!!
ashley says
This is so incredibly exciting! Congrats to you two.
Emily says
Amazing news, Kendra! So excited to follow your journey!
Laura MyNewestaddiction says
That is so awesome Kendra! I am happy for you!
Darla says
Yay! I can’t wait to hear all about it when I meet you a Haven in July.
Sarah Halstead says
YAY!!! Sooo happy for you all.
Crystal says
Awesome!! I’ll be praying!!
Claire @ A Little Claireification says
So happy for you both!! xo
Lydia says
Congratulations! How exciting! My husband and I have been talking about adoption since before we got married. We pray and hope for the opportunity to be able to do that some day. I absolutely adore your scarves! I’ve been looking for more scarves to wear during the Spring and Summer. I’m going to talk to my husband about ordering a few, and I will be sharing your shop and blog on my Facebook pages. I hope it helps bring in more funds for your new baby, whenever he/she becomes a part of your family!
Daffny says
I know I said congratulations already on Twitter, but this is such exciting news, I thought I would say it again! I’ve added your Etsy shop to my favorites so I can come back to it. The scarves and hair ties are adorable. I wish you guys all the best.
CONGRATULATIONS!
Amber says
I’m so happy, and excited for you both!! Can’t wait to hear all the details! <3
Kelley says
So so exciting, congratulations!!! I have a good friend who is a birth mom with an open adoption, check out The Grace Bond (www.thegracebond.com) .. I’m sure she has tons of great resources for you!!
Phyrra says
Congratulations! So happy for you!
Mixbook says
We’d love to feature your “On an adventure…” announcement photo in our baby adoption article for interested readers! We can’t wait to see the beautiful new memories you create with you new addition. Best of luck!!
Kelly Cox says
Blessings to you in the wait! We joined the waitlist to adopt our baby on November 20, 2015. We are “Joyfully Waitlisted” as I call it over on my blog. I am posting a monthly post as we wait. I have posted this comment with a prayer for you two and your litte one!